How to Write HR Complaints: Dos & Don’ts

Knowing how to properly submit HR complaints can protect your rights and create critical evidence if problems escalate. Many employees experience harassment, discrimination, or unfair treatment at work, but do not know how to write a complaint letter to HR in a way that preserves a paper trail and triggers the employer’s legal obligations.

This guide explains how to prepare a formal complaint, what to include in a written complaint, what to avoid, and what to do if human resources fails to act. These steps are especially important under California law, which provides strong protections for employees who report workplace misconduct.

This information is educational only and does not constitute legal advice.

What Is an HR Complaint?

An HR complaint is a formal complaint submitted to an employer’s human resources department reporting workplace issues that may violate company policy or the law. HR complaints are most appropriate when the issue involves more than a routine disagreement and may require investigation or corrective action.

Common reasons employees file HR complaints include:

  • Discriminacion based on a protected characteristic such as gender, race, disability, sexual orientation, national origin, medical condition, or gender identity
  • Hostigamiento o Acoso, including sexual harassment or a hostile work environment
  • Wage violations, such as unpaid overtime or missed meal breaks
  • Represalias after engaging in protected activity, such as reporting misconduct or unsafe working conditions

Submitting a written HR complaint helps establish a clear record of what happened and when, which can be critical evidence if a dispute later arises.

How to Write a Complaint Letter to HR (Step by Step)

Writing a strong formal complaint letter requires clarity, professionalism, and attention to detail. Whether you submit your complaint by email or form, the goal is to document facts, not emotions.

Step 1: Use a Clear Subject Line

Example:
Formal Complaint – Discrimination Based on Disability – [Your Job Title] – [Date]

Step 2: Summarize the Issue Clearly

In the opening paragraph, explain what happened, who was involved, and why the conduct may violate the law or company policy. Focus on facts rather than opinions.

Step 3: Include a Timeline With Specific Dates

List incidents in chronological order, including:

  • Dates and times
  • Names and job titles of involved individuals
  • Names of witnesses, if any

Specific dates and details strengthen credibility and help HR investigate.

Step 4: Attach Supporting Evidence

Attach critical evidence such as emails, text messages, performance reviews, or other documents. Keep copies for your own records.

Step 5: Respectfully Request Action

State what you are asking HR to do, such as conduct an investigation, address inappropriate behavior, or take corrective action.

Tip: Avoid emotive language. Stick to objective descriptions of what happened.

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HR Complaint Form vs. Email

Some companies require employees to use a complaint form, while others accept complaints by email. Either option can be effective as long as it creates a paper trail.

  • Complaint forms help standardize reporting
  • Emails allow more detail and attachments

Always save copies outside of your work system.

Sample Complaint Letters You Can Adapt

Below are simplified examples you can tailor to your situation.

Discrimination Sample Letter

“I am submitting a formal complaint regarding discrimination based on my protected class under California law. On [date], my supervisor treated me differently than colleagues performing the same job. This conduct has affected my work environment. I respectfully request an investigation.”

Harassment Sample Letter

“I am filing a written complaint regarding harassment that has created a hostile work environment. Specific incidents occurred on [dates] and included inappropriate touching and comments. Supporting evidence is attached.”

Retaliation Sample Letter

“After reporting unsafe working conditions and wage violations on [date], I experienced retaliation, including changes to my job duties. I am requesting HR review and take corrective action.”

Dos and Don’ts When Writing HR Complaints

What to Do

  • Use clear, factual language
  • Include specific dates and witnesses
  • Reference company policy or protected characteristics when relevant
  • Keep your own records of everything submitted

What to Avoid

  • Threatening legal action in the complaint
  • Using inflammatory or speculative language
  • Making vague accusations without facts
  • Relying only on verbal conversations

What If HR Doesn’t Respond?

If HR does not respond within a reasonable timeframe:

  • Send a polite follow-up referencing your original complaint
  • Ask for the status of the investigation
  • Continue documenting all interactions

If HR ignores your complaint, delays action, or retaliates against you, you may have additional rights under California law. Some employees also contact the Labor Commissioner or California Civil Rights Department depending on the issue.

When HR Misuses the Complaint Process

Sometimes HR protects the company rather than the employee. If your complaint is dismissed, minimized, or used against you, preserve all records and consider speaking with an employment attorney. Retaliation for filing HR complaints may be unlawful.

Preguntas Frecuentes

Should I put my HR complaint in writing?

Yes. A written complaint creates documentation that may be important later.

Can I file an HR complaint anonymously?

Some employers allow anonymous complaints, but identified complaints often provide stronger legal protections.

What if my manager or HR is the problem?

You may escalate to higher management or an external agency. Legal guidance can help determine next steps.

Need Help After Filing an HR Complaint?

If you filed an HR complaint and experienced retaliation, discrimination, or inaction, you may have legal options. Hershey Law represents California employees in employment law matters involving harassment, discrimination, and retaliation.

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